Wednesday, 15 August 2012

Capital F.E.M.I debuts with First Album


                                    CAPITAL F.E.M.I Debuts With Year Of R&B On August 24
                    After 5 interesting singles, the much awaited debut album of Kennis music R&B singer, Femi                      Adeyinka, who is well known and referred to as Capital F.E.M.I, has gotten a date of release.
The album, which is entitled The Year of R&B, is billed for release on August 24, 2012. While it would be heralded with several events, the album consists of 17tracks some which are, Baby I Got(Money, Money) which features label mate, Eedris Abdulkareem, Never Felt A Love, Get Low, In The Name Of Love and the most recent hot single, Don’t Let Go, which was produced by top American producer, Hakeem the HAK. According to the one time US based music act, the release of the album is the beginning of a new tide in the R&B genre in Nigeria.
“Big things are happening and I can’t wait for these things to happen. The much anticipated album is ready and would be out by August 24, it would be released with several events lined up by our Kennis Music, Laughter Incorporated and other partners. It’s a 17 tracker and I can tell you, you won’t regret getting a copy of the album. Like I always say, it’s the year of R&B, so let’s celebrate,” Capital F.E.M.I said.
Already plans are in top gear to ensure that the music act is well celebrated by all and sundry as his management team and music label, Kennis Music, are not leaving anything unturned in ensuring that the album is well received.
An album listening party as well as an Industry Nite in honour of Capital F.E.M.I is been planned by the organizers of Industry Nite.





My husband supports my return to acting 100% - Dakore Akande

"I want to use this medium to clear the air. I don't know why they went ahead to say because I became a wife my career was over. That is a very archaic way of thinking. Women these day and age work. We have responsibilities. But I didn't say anything because everything one says about me and I react, I won't have time to do anything with my life. I am an actor but having a family is more important to me, and I am very sure my fans appreciate that. I considered my fans and I said to myself when my daughter is old enough, I would come back to the movie industry. She's almost one now. I am back to acting and my husband supports me returning to it 100%. If he was not supporting me, I would not be doing it." - Dakore Egbuson Akande

Jennifer Lopez: My man needs to be ‘sweet’


After splitting from Marc Anthony, her husband of seven years and the father of her twins, and marking the end of her third marriage, you might think that Jennifer Lopez had given up on finding the man of her dreams. But just a few months after announcing her breakup, the former "American Idol" judge had found a new relationship with choreographer Casper Smart, now 25. Though the May-December romance — he's 18 years her junior — raised a few eyebrows (and, let's face it, had "boy toy" written all over it), the couple is still going strong after nearly a year. Why? Because, when it comes to Lopez's tastes, nice guys finish first. "The most important quality the man in my life should have is that he is sweet. I like the good guys," Lopez says in the September issue of InStyle.
And while it was difficult to stay optimistic about romance, Lopez — who recently turned 43 and celebrated the big day at swanky yacht party thrown by her beau — did: "The hard part is that you never stop believing in love. You never stop. But that's also the best part. You never stop believing, and you never, ever give up."
"Jenny from the block" may have grown up in a working-class family in the Bronx, but the future superstar ended up with a pretty charmed life when it came to showbiz early on, becoming one of the "Fly Girl" dancers on Fox's variety show "In Living Color" at age 22 and landing the starring role in the biopic "Selena" five years later.
Her career has stayed steady and strong over the past few decades with more movie roles, hit albums, and even a successful fashion line. But it's been Lopez's love life that's thrown her most of her curve balls. Her first marriage to Cuban actor Ojani Noa only lasted a year, a second to dancer Cris Judd fizzled after two, and she dealt with the very public breakup of "Bennifer" (the name the media dubbed her and one-time boyfriend Ben Affleck). Then there was, of course, her recent split from Anthony, which meant her two children, 4-year-old twins Emme and Max, would be raised by single parents. "I live by the mantra that God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. It's not until something bad or difficult happens that you really get to grow. And then you realize that those difficult moments, the times when you feel pain, are when you do a lot of your growing," Lopez explains. "You realize: There's no reason to be terrified of things. Either way I'm going to be OK."
Despite the fact she lives a very different life than most of us, filled with private planes, performances in front of thousands, and paparazzi on her tail, Lopez does point out a similarity between herself and the average American. "I'm the same as any parent. I feel the pressures of wanting to be a great parent and of wanting to do right by my children. I feel the pressure of knowing you can't be perfect even though you want to be," she admits. "One thing I've learned: Being a mom, or a dad, is the most important job there is. It doesn't matter who you are. You have to embrace it for everything that it is."

Nightclub Sues chris brown and drake

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According to tmz Chris Brown and Drake are now a team -- both are defendants in a lawsuit just filed by the owners of the nightclub which was the site of the June 14th, bottle throwing, bloody brawl.

Entertainment Enterprises Ltd., the company that owns WiP nightclub in NYC, claims in the suit that both stars "shared a grudge against the other arising out of their romantic relationships with the same woman."  In case you were vacationing under a rock ... it's Rihanna.

EEL claims in the suit -- obtained by the New York Post -- when Drake and Brown crossed paths, they "began to fight violently with each other."

The suit goes on ... "Each arrived with his own small army of bodyguards, 'security' personnel, employees, friends and other members of their entourage consisting of at least 15 heavily built men trained and/or experienced in hand-to-hand and weapons combat."

The lawsuit says both Drake and Chris each ordered their goons to take care of business.

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The suit also credits the crews of both Drake and Chris with ingenuity, claiming they "fashioned deadly weapons out of whatever materials they could find, including glasses, alcohol bottles and furniture."

The suit asks for $15 million in damages.




Omotola Gets Twitter Verification After Genevieve

Sexy Nollywood actress, Omotola Ekeinde Jalade has joined the league of Nigerian celebrities that have got their account on social media, Twitter verified.

The beautiful mother of four and wife of a Nigerian pilot, Capt. Mathew Ekeinde has now got the 'blue' mark of Twitter attached to her twitter handle, @realomosexy, which shows the authenticity of her account on the site.

The Amnesty International ambassador has gradually become a global brand. And to differentiate her account from parody accounts on twitter, she it became necessary for her account to be verified by twitter.


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She has joined Asa, D’Banj, Osaze Odemwinge, Genevieve Nnaji, Oluchi, Nneka, Brymo, Jesse Jagz, Dencia and Ice Prince, who already have their twitter accounts verified.

She has become the second Nollywood actress that has got her twitter account verified after ever beautiful rival Genevieve Nnaji.
Source: Osaremen Ehi James/Nigeriafilms.com


Zainab of Big Brother Fame Confirmed As Guest Model For Glitz Africa Fashion Week

Sierra Leonean model and representative to Big Brother Stargame, Zainab O Sheriff has been confirmed as a guest model for the Glitz Africa Fashion Week scheduled for Accra, August 17-19.
The sexy model will walk the runway together with fellow Big Brother housemate and model from Ghana, Keitta.
The Sierra Leonean fashion model, who is also based in Istanbul Turkey, started her modeling career at age 14 in the local area of Freetown Sierra Leone. She relocated to Istanbul Turkey in 2006, and immediately the eye of many high fashion designers. So far in her career she has done extensive Runway Shows, features in top magazines such as Elle magazine, Marie Claire, Vogue and many more.
Also confirmed as guests for The Glitz Africa Fashion Week are Big Brother Stargame housemates, Chris (Nigeria),Seydou (Angola), Jannette (Uganda) and Ola (Nigeria). The Glitz Africa Fashion Week is tailored to provide the platform for Africa’s Fashion industry to showcase its talents, network, celebrate each other and expose them to unchartered markets.
Some of the top designers of African origin from Ghana, United Kingdom, United States of America and the entire African continent will showcase at 1 venue, with 10 fashions shows in 3 days, 40 international models.
Activities during the 3 days will include: Fashion Shows, Make up Party, Fashion Award, Sales Exhibition, Seminars / Workshops, Private cocktail parties for sponsors, designers and celebrities, Performances by top musicians, DJs and dancers, and after party events.
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PHOTO: Police Man 'Show-Off' In Honour Of Prez Mills


Ghana Police In 'Show-Of' In Honour Of Prez Mills

Keitta Throws 3-Days Party For BBA Stargame Housemates


Ghana’s darling boy in this year’s Big Brother Stargame Keitta Ossei Massai who was evicted after staying in the South African based reality house for eleven weeks, is throwing a never happened before three day Party for his housemates.

The 3-Day party titled “KING KEITTA AND HIS BBA FRIENDS” is scheduled to start from Friday August 17 at Rockstone’s Office, continue on Saturday August 18 but this time at the Aphrodisiac Night Club and back to Rockstone’s Office where it will all end on Sunday August 19 with grand “Chicken N Beer” party.

A close source disclose to Peacefmonlin.com that Keitta and his big brother Reggie Rockstone are doing all they can to bring as many housemates as they can depending on who will be available to party in Ghana with their “Azonto” fans.

At the time of filing this report, a source close to the Ossei family hinted that they have spoken to almost all the housemate both Upvillers and Downvillers but it’s very likely BBA Stargame winner Keagan from South Africa (Keitta’s best friend in the house), bad girl Model Zainab from Sierra Leone, big Ola and Chris who represented Nigeria, cutie Jannette from Uganda, crazy Maneta from Zimbabwe, Malonza and Alex from Kenya among others will spend this weekend in Ghana.

Several other celebrities are also expected to be present at the big party and Keitta’s girlfriend and BBA Downville partner Mildred aka Eazzy will be present as well.

There will be pictures with your favorite housemate, autograph signing etc. The Big Brother housemates have also planned an Azonto formation dance together like they did in the house.

There will definitely be performances by some Ghanaian artiste who will pass through to support Keitta. The party is organized by Rockstone’s office and sponsored by Hennessy and Moet.
Source: Eugene Osafo-Nkansah/Peacefmonline.com/Ghana

Tuesday, 14 August 2012

Eazzy to perform in Kumasi for the first time after Big Brother Stargame

Rapper/singer Eazzy will be performing in Kumasi for the first time since her stint in the Big Brother Stargame on Saturday, August 18. She will headline the third installment of an annual concert in celebration of womenfolk held at the Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (KNUST).

The first edition of the concert was headlined by Sarkodie and last year’s headline act was Dr Cryme. Eazzy believes she will be representing all female acts in Ghana being the first to headline the concert.  She remarked: “It’s going to be crazy.  Since it’s going to be my fist show in Kumasi after Big Brother, I am going give it my all and thrill students of KNUST and the people of Kumasi. Although it’s a girls’ affair, I want all the boys to come also and enjoy the fun and support their women.
Source : AmeyawDebrah.Com




Timbaland & Missy Elliott Don’t Have “Any Plans” To Participate In Aaliyah Album

Timbaland and Missy Elliott are out of the forthcoming Aaliyah album, but Drake is still in.
According to Billboard Elliott’s longtime manager, Mona Scott-Young, announced that the duo is not participating in the project. “Although Missy and Timbaland always strive to keep the memory of their close friend alive, we have not been contacted about the project nor are there any plans at this time to participate,” said Scott-Young, who is also the executive producer of the Love & Hop-Hop series on VH1. “We’ve seen the reports surfacing that they have been confirmed to participate but that is not the case. Both Missy and Timbaland are very sensitive to the loss still being felt by the family so we wanted to clear up any misinformation being circulated.”
This new information is the latest in a bunch of conflicting reports, including Blackground Records headJomo Hankerson stating that Timbo and Missy would be involved.
Late last week, Elliott responded to a fan congratulating her on the posthumous album by tweeting “I had not clue there was one, no 1 told me.” She later deleted the post.
In here statement about the project, Elliott shared fond memories of her friend. “Tim and I carry Aaliyah with us every day, like so many of the people who love her. She will always lie in our hearts. We have nothing but love and respect for her memory and for her loved ones left behind still grieving her loss. They are always in our prayers.”
In related news, Blackground Records announced a collaboration with New York based music publisher, Reservoir Media, and Black Fountain Music. “This partnership marks a pivotal time in our business at Reservoir and we are honored to be collaborating with Barry and Jomo Hankerson on such an important and iconic music catalog,” said Reservoice Executive VP Rell Lafargue in a statement toHip-Hop Wired.
The deal includes the acquisition of Aaliyah and her late producer/songwriter, Static Major’s, catalog in addition to the singer’s new release.


6 Things to Know When Starting a Record Label


Right now may be the best and the worst time in the history of recorded music for you to consider starting your own record label. If you’re only interested in profits and couldn’t care less what you sell so long as a relatively young demographic buys it, we wish you luck, but can assure you that this article isn’t for you. If your motivation is to sell records and music, break even on your costs (although you may indeed end up releasing a Grammy-winning hit record), and feel a sense of pride in your job at the end of the workday, then you’re a strong candidate for heading an adventurous, niche-oriented label. Here are six basic things you should know when starting a record label.
  1. Know your labels:Take time to research independent labels in all genres of music; visit their websites and try purchasing a download or a physical product. Use Google’s search engine to find articles that tell their story and illuminate the reasons for their success, and reach out to the owners of labels you admire for advice. Knowing how other independent labels are doing business in the 21st century will only help you decide what you want or don’t want to do with your own venture. Go back and dig into the history of independent labels that changed the world of music. Richard King’s new bookHow Soon Is Now? is a great introduction to several independent British labels who introduced the sound and the bands that defined what we know today as indie-rock.
  2. Find your niche:Major labels (as of this writing, there are only three still standing) are not interested in investing in an underground and creatively minded artist who ultimately will only sell a few thousand copies of a physical recording. In contrast, independent labels cater to music consumers whose tastes range beyond the latest Lady Gaga or Katy Perry track. Consider what kind of music you love and truly believe deserves, if not a large audience, support from an honest business person like yourself. If an artist on your label who makes such music trusts you, chances are they’ll stick around even if they end up going to No. 1 on the Billboard chart.
  3. Get funding:In addition to getting a Doing Business As (DBA) license and opening a business checking account, you’ll need some cash for your fledgling label. How much cash you need depends on the scope of ambitions for your label. To get started, check out the federal government’s Small Business Administration website for lots of useful tips for starting a business, as well as information about small business loan programs. See if your state offers small business grants. Some independent labels are nonprofits themselves or are part of a not-for-profit organization, like Innova Recordings, which releases recordings by contemporary classical composers. Nonprofits can apply for funding for recording projects through organizations like New Music USA.
  4. Learn the legal lingo:If you’re going to be selling music, either your own or by artists you sign to your label, you’re going to have to wrap your head around some business and legal terminology that only an industry as weird and corrupt as the music industry could create. Your goal should be to protect yourself, as well as your artists, from getting ripped off by people who want to license out the music on your label and major labels who might offer you a distribution deal. Check out Donald Passman’s book All You Need To Know About The Music Business for, well, all you need to know about the music business!
  5. Educate yourself on duplicating and packaging:Decide how you want to package and distribute the music your label releases. Will you offer only MP3 downloads, or elaborately packaged, color vinyl records? Your decision will depend heavily upon the niche market you cater to, although it’s not unheard of these days for labels to offer downloads, CDs, and vinyl recordings. Duplicating CDs has gotten less expensive, with Disc Makers being a go-to service for many independent labels. But take time to ask other independent label owners who they use for CD duplication; you could end up with a better price and better quality service. Vinyl record sales actually increased in 2011, although they are most certainly still a niche market. Check outRecord PressingEricka Records, and Dynamic Sun for more information about pressing vinyl.
  6. Consider distribution:Just managing the selling of albums and MP3s, either through mail order or digital download, is a full-time job in itself. And for better or for worse, music lovers are getting more and more used to instant gratification when it comes to finding and purchasing music. With that in mind, your label will need to offer its artists quick and reliable distribution of their music. Setting up a site where you sell downloads isn’t difficult. Getting the physical product into record stores, which still exist, believe it or not, is a bit more challenging, but not impossible. Check out Redeye Distribution to see how they distribute CDs and vinyl records for independent labels. While you’re on their site, check out the list of labels they work with — it’s pretty impressive!

Monday, 13 August 2012

Saudi Arabia Warns Christians Not To Eat In Public Because Of Ramadan!

RIYADH, Saudi Arabia (AP) — Saudi authorities warned non-Muslim expatriates on Friday, the first day of Ramadan, not to eat, drink, or smoke in public until the end of the Muslim holy month’s sunrise-to-sunset fast — or face expulsion.
The Interior Ministry of the oil-rich kingdom called on expatriates to “show consideration for feelings of Muslims” and “preserve the sacred Islamic rituals.” Otherwise, a ministry statement said, Saudi authorities will cancel violators’ work contracts and expel them.
Saudi Arabia’s population of 27 million includes some 8 million expatriates, including Asians, Arabs, and Westerners, according to government figures.The ultraconservative Sunni kingdom is the home of Islam’s holiest sites. The warning — which is issued at the beginning of Ramadan every year — serve as a reminder that the Western-allied monarchy must answer to a strict religious establishment that holds de facto veto power over many of its policies.
With challenges to the established order growing bolder from a population nearly half of which is under 30, Saudi Arabia has recently made some moves to show moderation. It is sending female athletes to the Olympics for the first time this year. King Abdullah has promised to allow women to run and vote in municipal elections in 2015. He also has tried to rein in the country’s feared morality police.
But Saudi rights advocate Waleed Aboul Khair believes that while such moves give impression that the grip of hardliners has eased, “when you look around, nothing has changed and suppression has not changed.” He is facing trial for “tarnishing the kingdom’s reputation,” mostly by his political activism for women’s rights and other issues.Source : AFP

            

Father Bust for S*ex With Son



A 10-YEAR-OLD boy from the West Rand has been moved to a place of safety after allegedly having been sodomised by his father.

The 32-year-old father, a Zimbabwean who lives in Rietvallei near Kagiso, made a brief appearance in the Krugersdorp Magistrate’s Court on Friday.
He was arrested last Thursday after a neighbour alerted police.
Warrant Officer Solomon Sibiya confirmed the child is receiving medical treatment.
“The boy was staying with his father because his mother lives in Tembisa,” Sibiya said. “The neighbour told the police what had allegedly happened to the boy after his own son, who is friends with the victim, told him that his friend was not feeling well.
“He spoke to the boy and realised the seriousness of the situation. He was obviously very concerned and alerted police.”
According to Sibiya the child was scared because his father had allegedly threatened to kill him if he ever told anyone about what had happened to him.
Popular television actor Patrick Shai – who has admitted that he physically abused his wife – described the incident as “disturbing”.
“This comes after the alleged rape of a very old woman in KwaZulu-Natal. The country is facing an enemy far bigger than apartheid. At least then we knew who the enemy was. Now people simply have no morals,” said Shai.
Shai recently spoke out against escalating rape in the country at a prayer service for a Soweto girl who was allegedly gang-raped by seven men.

Nyasha: Sweet At Sixteen, Elegant At Heart

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What does it take to be a successful career person at a very young stage in life?
Young Zimbabwean model Nyasha Matonhodze surely has a clue.
Matonhodze is only sixteen (born on July 31, 1995) but she is already making waves in a trade made only for the brave and spirited at heart. She is being touted as the 'next big thing' to take on the world of modeling.
This year, in a list of Africa's top 20 models put together by Forbes Africa, she came first beating off stiff competition from other modeling big shots like Kinee Diouf, Ataui Deng, Ajak Deng, Grace Bol, Nana Keita, Marika Le Roux, Candice Swanepoel and Aminata Niara.
To qualify for the top 20, a model had to be born in Africa, and must have done a lot of work during winter/Fall 2011 and Summer Spring 2012. This included advertising campaigns, magazine covers, fashion shows and editorials.
Making Forbes top 20 list was part of a regular slideshow of successes that she continues to embrace everyday. It is surprising how she does it but to think that at her age she's already shot a high-level advertising campaign directed by renowned fashion photographer Steven Meisel and styled by Karl Templer for fashion mogul Louis Vuitton, makes her story one of a kind.
'I thought 'Lord you are lucky!' It didn't actually hit me until I was in a Rolls Royce sitting eye-to-eye with Miesel,' she told the UK's Daily Telegraph of the perks that came with shooting for Vuitton.
The 5'11/180 model was last year revealed as one of the faces of luxury for the French fashion label who found in Matonhodze a worthy face for their autumn/winter campaign. Her poise and maturity belies her 16 years of age, making her one of modeling's biggest assets.
Plus, it is her statuesque elegance and sweet-sixteen warm personality that's made her the favourite of most fashion houses.
'I'm getting the chance to work with people who are legends to me. People that I never thought I'd work with. Not only designers, not only stylists, photographers as well and models. What I hope for is a long lasting career. That is what I want and that is what I hope to get, to be seen on the runway at 24 or 30,' she said in one of her interviews.
The Louis Vuitton shoot followed several others she'd already done for big brands like TopShop, Harper's Bazaar, Teen Vogue and V magazine.
Just like many of her peers, Matonhodze is also overwhelmed by how well she is able to model.
'I find it difficult to see myself and think that I'm a model. I feel blessed and honoured to keep getting that next step in my career. I've met amazing people that keep supporting me and pushing me further and further. It's like a dream, no matter how good I do; it's still so surreal for me,' she tells the New York Magazine.
Consistently, Matonhodze has told tales of how her discovery into the world of modeling, 'wasn't really a discovery'.
Her story makes for interesting narration. In 2009, in a school uniform, she walked into the offices of Elite Modeling agency in the United Kingdom and became a finalist in a modeling contest the agency was running at the time, signed a contract, and days later, had her debut at the Spring Louis Gray show in London.
She's also walked for names like Loewe, Jonathan Saunders, Emanuel Ungaro, Marc by Marc Jacobs, Zac Posen, Burberry, MaxMara, DKNY, Carolina Herrera and Michael Kors among a tall, enviable list.
'My discovery wasn't a discovery. Since I was 12, I was tall and thin so I would always get the whole 'you should be a model,' but I never really developed a serious interest about it until America's Next Top Model'.
Nyasha auditioned and competed in Cycle 10 of the very popular modeling reality television contest, and has since that time, gradually built her way up to the top.
'Seriously, that's when it all changed for me. Everything I wanted was pretty much based off that show'.
It definitely took her a lot of hard work and dedication to get to the top after the effort by her parents, whom she had joined in the United Kingdom at the age of eight from Harare, Zimbabwe, where she was born and raised by her grandmother.
'...My mother, she was a single mother at 18 who moved to London without knowing anyone. She's always worked hard and seeing her overcome so much in life has been an inspiration for me. She's so successful now, and I want to be like her'.
'I do still have memories of Zimbabwe - falling asleep in the sand, bathing outside, the warmth of the sun, and just the way of living'.
'Moving to England, I saw their perspective on Africa and what they think it's like, and it's completely the opposite....
A great admirer of British Stylist Katie Grand and friends with Sudanese model Ajak, Matonhdze loves photography and enjoys working with Jason Kibbler and Daniel Jackson.

Already she's shot over 90 campaigns, 80 of which were shot in the last year. Matonhodze has certainly got her grind on, and wouldn't be long that she will make it into a list of the world's top models. Considering what she's achieved so far, that shouldn't be hard to achieve.
Matonhodze is also signed to Marilyn Agency in New York. For a young model to be represented by two different agencies in two different territories, is certainly a big deal and something most models, some older than her, will yearn for.
For years to come, Nyasha will be remembered as that young Zimbwabean lady who found in modeling, a life-changing career and went for it. Whether or not she will continue to remain relevant and be respected for what she does years from now is a guess that can always wait, as she continues to walk the fat budget runways of London, Milan, New York and Paris.
The cheers will always be loud when you make it out of very ordinary circumstances but allowing the fame to get to you can always be suicidal. Nyasha is fully aware of all that, and isn't prepared to have a taste of that sweet-sour experience.
'If you're not strong-minded, modeling can knock your confidence quite harshly. Every day you're judged on your look, and more so today you're judged on your personality. With that said, a lot of us are 15 or 16-years-old, so some girls could really take the criticism personally. What we have to understand is that there's not something wrong with us per se, we just aren't a right fit with the client,' she tells New York Magazine.
'You never know what's next. One minute you're good and the next is a bit of a ... I'm just making the most of the time that I've got,' she said in one of her interviews.

“Our Honeymoon Was Hell: My Husband Rapés Me Violently” – wife speaks

The honeymoon period ended the day after we were married, six months from when we first met.
After a little argument, Dehinde grabbed me by the waist and lifted me up against the wall. He grabbed my hands and bent them backward, breaking one of my fingers. I was in shock. I was stunned. I was in serious pains…
A few hours after the incident, He broke into tears and told me how sorry he was. I loved him so much, so I believed him when he said it wouldn’t happen again. But life became hell after that.For the next two months the abuse was nonstop. He kept me in a constant state of terror. I’m not a drinker, but he’d toss a bottle of beer in my face and say “drink”. He’d punch me in the stomach or kick me in the thigh if I didn’t. I started walking on tiptoes around him, fearful of everything I’d say and do. But it didn’t matter; the abuse continued.
He dislocated my shoulder several times. He’d lift me up by the ankles and bang my head against the floor in the living room. A part of me wanted to leave, but another part of me hesitated. Somehow I felt I was partially responsible for the abuse. If I hadn’t made a particular comment or if I had just sipped the alcohol everything would have been OK. And for the first few months he was apologetic after the beatings. He’d say he felt very bad and that he didn’t mean to hit me so hard. He’d actually cry sometimes and show such remorse that I’d forget my own pain.
He’d become romantic and sweet, and I’d fall in love with him all over again. I started to isolate myself from friends and family. I didn’t want them to know about the violence. I put on a happy face with my two kids and tried to act like things were fine. They knew about the violence but didn’t know the severity. When my mom wanted to see me, I’d lie, saying I was busy. I didn’t want her to see my bruises. I was embarrassed.
Sadly, the abuse worsened. The rapés began about two months after we were married. I was dressing for work when he came out of the shower and asked me where I was going. He didn’t wait for my answer. He threw me on the bed, sat on my stomach, pinned my arms up beside my head and ripped off my clothes. “If you want séx, wait until I get home tonight,” I said. “You’ll do it when I want, and how I want,” was his response. It got worse after that. He would tie me up and put foreign objects such as necks of beer bottles into my vagina.
Five months into the marriage I endured beating after beating. While most of the assaults were done when my children weren’t home, I was worried that they might step in and try to protect me. If they did, they might get beaten, too. I began plotting our escape, but it was difficult. He had begun making threatening comments: “You can never get far enough away from me. I will always find you. If I can’t have you, no one will.”
I felt trapped. How I left? He had disappeared for three days. I didn’t know where he was. I thought he had been in an accident. I called his phone; he would answer but not say anything. He arrived home on the third night at about 1a.m. and immediately started screaming at me that he didn’t appreciate me trying to track him down.We were in the sitting room and he grabbed the land-phone receiver and began to beat me in the face with it. His eyes were red and flashing like I’d never seen before. I ran to the bedroom, and he was right behind me. He picked me up over his head and threw me across the room twice. I broke my tailbone in the second fall. My 6-year-old daughter woke up. She must have heard something and came to see what was happening. She just stood there, stunned.
He looked at her and got scared for some reason. He went into the bedroom and pack his things. I found my phone, fighting the pain from the broken bone, limped to the living room, I then called my father who took me away from the house.
Since then I have not set my eyes on Dehinde. Please what should I do about this marriage?

Rihanna’s Friends Worry She’s ‘Overdoing’ It With Constant Drinking



Rihanna has reportedly worried friends with her drinking habits and they fear she is “overdoing” it.
The 24-year-old singer has been drinking hard for almost a year and her friends even feared she would have to go to rehab to tame her partying lifestyle. While Rihanna has taken more than a month off work to relax in Cannes and her hometown of Barbados, friends say she hasn’t been able to put the drink down and they fear she is burning herself out again.
“She cannot put a drink down. Even when she’s in the sea on a surfboard, she’s got a beer,” a source close to the singer told theDaily Star.
“You really don’t see her go without a drink on any day of the week, ever. There was a point when all her mates thought she was within hours of going into rehab.”
In addition to her partying lifestyle, those close to her fear her intense workload isn’t helping matters.
“She never has a break between albums. Her singles come out at such a fast pace. She is always filming a video or doing a new photoshoot. She is so hardworking.”
Despite the supposed calls for concern, Rihanna’s friend, designer Henry Holland, says: “She is totally in control.”
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