Friday, 21 September 2012

“I Caught My Husband Videotaping My Little Sister While She Was Showering – Should I Forgive Him” – Wife Ask


I caught my husband videotaping my little sister while she was taking a shower. I caught him, and he apologized. He said that he didn’t know what came over him. He asked for a second chance .
I also found some unclad pictures and videos on his phone. I asked him to delete them, which he did, however, I never forgave him for my sister. Should I? Should I trust him? And, on top of it, I never asked what he wanted to do with the video? Is it late to ask him now?
Please help.

10 Ways To Know If A Woman Is Interested In You

1. Spend time with her before assuming anything. It’s important to get to know her better and to give her the chance to get to know you too. Find a shared activity, like a sport, a hobby, a club, or even just hanging around chatting during lunch hour so that you can simply be around one another long enough to get the vibe. While you may be tempted to lock eyes across a crowded room and know “she’s the one”, it’s a lot better to try and spend time around each other before letting instant attraction do all the decision-making.

  • Look at her unconscious acts first. Body language will provide the first hints about how she sees you, so be ready to spot them. Some of the main things to look for include:
    • She will seem to stand taller, pull her shoulders back, and pull her stomach in.[1]
    • You’ll see her licking her lips, touching her neck or lifting her head so that more of her neck is exposed.
    • She may lean toward you more, or move closer to you. She might lean in to whisperas an excuse to get closer.
    • Flared nostrils can be a sign of interest, although this might be hard to detect without looking a little too interested in her nose!
    • She might start playing with her hair and wiping imaginary dust off your clothes.
    • Look for the blush; that’s a fairly good sign she’s keen on you.
    • Watch for her touching you and mirroring your movements. These are signs too that she’s interested.[2]
  • Listen to what she says to you. If a girl is interested in you, some of the things she says will start to give away her interest. For example, she might suddenly start to call you by a pet name and start complimenting you. Other verbal signs of interest in you include giggling, laughing at your jokes even if they’re pretty lame, and asking for your help.
    • Crack a joke. It doesn’t matter how bad it is; if she’s interested in you, she’ll laugh. If she’s not into you, you’ll get such responses as a steely look and no laugh at all, a pitying smile, or a condescending comment.
    • It’s a really good sign if she asks you a question she could easily find the answer to herself.
  • Watch her eyes. For starters, if you get close enough to see, you might notice her pupils dilate – they will do this if she’s interested in you. Moreover, she will start tomaintain eye contact and even lock eyes with you once she’s interested in you. She will scan your face, do a double-take, and give you a darting glance, then a second look.[3]She may also look doe-eyed or dewy-eyed when she looks at you.
    • Take a moment during class, after studies, or whenever she’s around to check out where she’s looking. If she’s watching you or looks at you and then quickly looks away when she spots that you’ve seen her, she’s interested. These little glances mean that she’s thinking about you, a lot. Focusing her view on you is a great sign of interest.
    • Avoid showing embarrassment about catching her glancing at you. That is the last thing she’d want to make you feel and in turn this would make her feel embarrassed. Act naturally, smile and look away to give her the space to recover.
    • Be wary if she is staring at you but not smiling, ever. This means she is not interested in you; either she is daydreaming or she’s having thoughts about how to get you back for a slight she considers you’ve committed toward her. No smile at all means you’re doing something wrong.
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    Watch her movements around you. Is she turning up everywhere you seem to be? Is she showing a sudden interest in things that you’re keen on but she’s not so big on, such as your football games? If she is willing to go out of the way to an event or game she’d normally have nothing to do with, this is a big hint that she’s interested in you. It gets even clearer for you if she takes the time to ask you questions about the game or about your involvement in it; that means she’s definitely into you. If she compliments you on a shot or kick you made or asks you why you didn’t play, it shows that she has been paying as much attention (if not more) to your individual involvement than the game itself.
  • Notice her personality. Personality changes can be a big sign of her interest in you – look for signs such as her being bubblier, quieter, or somehow different from her usual self when she’s around you. Such changes indicate nervousness in your vicinity and this nervousness is a sign she has a crush on you.
    • Sit down next to her at lunch, or during an activity, totally out of the blue. This will mean that she doesn’t have the time to prepare herself to meet you and her flustered responses will tell you a lot about her feelings for you.
    • If she’s showing off around you, that’s a sure sign she likes you and is trying to impress you.
  • Strike up a conversation about things that she is interested in. Even if she is shy, try and draw her out by asking her about her own interests. If she seems comfortable talking to you about herself and about her interests and points of view with you, this might indicate that she is keen on you. If she shares opinions and comments with you in a way that suggests she is being careful not to sound too strident, bossy, or opinionated, this could mean that she’s toning down her usual bravado to encourage you to take an interest in her.
    • Does she talk to you more than she talks to other people (anybody not obviously a friend)? If she’s usually not extremely talkative, and usually waits for someone else to start a conversation, it’s a good sign for you! It means she’s trying hard to gain your attention.
  • Test her. If she’s hanging around with other girls or male friends, there are a few things you can try to see how she responds:
    • Go up to her when her friends are all around her. If they suddenly disperse to leave the “two of you alone together”, it means she has already told them she likes you and has asked them to scram should you come along.
    • Compliment other girls when you talk to her. If she responds icily or visibly blanches or stiffens, you’ve just brought out her jealousy, which means she likes you for herself. Don’t keep her in this state; brush off the compliment as something vague and come back with a compliment twice as good directed at her alone.
    • Wave and say hello when you see her talking to another guy. If she appears flustered, uncomfortable, or looks down, this may be a sign that she’s not happy about you thinking that she likes this guy over you. If she didn’t have any response or simply waved back vaguely, this would indicate that she’s not that interested into you. Also realize that she may be more shy around you than she is around guys she considers to be “just friends”.
    • See if she looks to you for your reaction when she is talking about things with others, especially with other guys. This can be a sign that she cares more about how you react than about the other people she’s talking to.
  • Listen to your own senses. How do you feel when you’re around her? Do you feel happy, giddy, and excited? Does she make you feel good about yourself and do you feel like you want to spend more time around her? These are good signs that you’re feeling good about her and that you’re happy to contemplate asking her to be your girlfriend.
  • Pluck up the courage and tell her that you like her. You’ve had all the indications above, and you’ve decided the feelings are mutual and you’d really like her to be your girlfriend. The next logical step is to own up to liking her enough to want to be her boyfriend and to hope that she’ll respond in kind.
    • Don’t beat yourself up if she says no. Sometimes you’ll get all the signals because a girl is naturally flirty with everyone. She isn’t doing it to be mean, it’s just who she is and you’ll need to keep looking!
    • Also if she says no she could be very nervous, confused or playing hard to get. She could also be having some problems at home or with a parent who doesn’t want their child to have a boyfriend (It’s most typically the father). She might simply not be ready.
    • Know beforehand if she already has a date. That could make life very complicated unless you’re prepared to be the cause of a rupture in that relationship! If she’s not keen on exclusive relationships, find this out as soon as possible before you end up being hurt....

  • New mother Kourtney Kardashian recruits sister Khloe for a beach run in Miami as she battles to get back into shape

    Taking a breather: The pair dropped the run down a gear

    Kourtney, 33, gave birth to her second child, Penelope Scotland Disick on July 8, and now she's relocated her family to Florida to film the new series Kourtney and Kim Take Miami. 
    Kim, 31, is currently in Australia promoting QuickTrim weight loss products.

    'We have to find people who have a great chemistry, but Khloe is definitely up there in the running.'
    Meanwhile, 28-year-old Khloe's name is still in the mix to host The X Factor USA.
    The pop star search show started last week, but still lacks a presenter to front its live episodes, but sources say reality TV star Khloe and former Saved by the Bell actor Mario Lopez are the poised to sign on as presenters.
    Mario - who appeared in the third season of 'Dancing with the Stars' in 2006 - was tipped to host the first series of the show last year, but the job went to Steve Jones, who was dropped after unsatisfactory ratings. 
    Show boss Simon has previously hinted Khloe was his first choice to host the show.
    He said earlier this month: 'I know whom I would like, but now I have to get it approved by the network. 
    'We have screen-tested a load of people ... It could be a Kardashian. I think that would work. I'm a fan of putting inexperienced hosts on this show

    Despite Simon's claims, Mario, 38, has hosting experience, fronting 'America's Best Dance Crew' on MTV. 
    If negotiations with either potential host fall through, 'High School Musical' actor Corbin Bleu is said to be ready to step up to the mark. 
    The main stumbling block would be if the E! Network - who Khloe has an exclusive contract with - refuses to give permission for her to appear on the show, aired on the Fox network..

    Video: Ice Prince gives DJ Teffler Credit for Boosting his Career


    Ice Prince talks about how DJ Teffler’s remix to his first single “Oleku” helped make him famous. Watch the video below.

    Sleeping beauty Eva Longoria shows off her perfectly pert posterior in stunning nude photograph

    She gave fans a daring glimpse of her perfectly toned rear end in a floor length black and sheer dress at last week's Alma Awards. 

    But Eva Longoria has gone one better and stripped off completely for a new arty coffee-table book Asleep at the Château. 
    The 37-year-old actress is shown lying down with a white bed sheet casually covering her legs while her bare back and rear end face the camera.
    Peachy: Eva Longoria shows off her perfectly toned posterior in an arty photograph for the new book Asleep at the Chateau
    Peachy: Eva Longoria shows off her perfectly toned posterior in an arty photograph for the new book Asleep at the Chateau
    Her eyes are closed in a 'sleeping' pose and her dark hair strewn around the pillow. 
    The star is one of several stars including Orlando Bloom, Justin Theroux and Usher snapped by fashion and beauty photographer Jork Weismann for the book, set at Los Angeles's legendary hotel The Chateau Marmont.  
    The stars are showed sprawled out in chairs, on couches or across the floor in various states of undress.

    A cheeky glimpse: Eva wore this risque dress to the ALMA Awards in Pasadena last week
    Despite Eva's enviable figure, the ex-Desperate Housewives star has had her own struggles with keeping in shape. 
    'I work out in the mornings when I get up. I have to do it then - if it's after 11am it just doesn't happen,' she once told Look magazine. 
    'I have to get it done while I'm still on autopilot because I hate exercising.'
    Luckily, she has a gym in her house and a personal trainer to put her through her paces. 
    'I tried Pilates, but I couldn't deal with it,' she revealed. Dancing is also a great way to stay fit - I wish I could do that every day.'
    And like many of us, Eva also reveals she has a few fast food weaknesses, although is healthy most of the time. 
    'I do have confidence in my self-image. It's all about food and exercise - I don't really eat a lot of carbs,' she said. 
    'I did two months recently without sugar too. And once you start paying attention, everything sees to contain it. It's like, "Oh my god, even this banana is sugary."
    'But I do love French fries.'
    Eva, who is busy campaigning for the re-election of Barack Obama, recently revealed she is dating again after splitting with Penelope's brother Eduardo Cruz. 
    The actress recently told Extra host Mario Lopez she is seeing NFL star Mark Sanchez: 'Mark and I are, you know, fine. We're happy just dating.'
    But a source told Access Hollywood this week that the Mexican-American New York Giants player is head over heels with the divorced star: 'He is really in love with her and serious about her,' the source said.

    True Confession: He met her on Twitter, now his life is a complete mess


    After that Yemi (@Losgiddy) story,I made up my mind to share this story about the experience one of my friends(Femi) had. He met this virgin babe on twitter early this year,they started from RTing each other’s tweets to admiring each other’s avatars to DM then BBM,to calling and visiting each other (only the girl visits though). Femi never had the intention to go out with the babe (hausa babe named Abiba but grew up in Ibadan) but he was desperate to get into this fine babes pant & as he’s a fine boy,it was easier for him.
    After about 4weeks of lies and persistence,Femi finally convinced Abiba that he was genuinely in love with her so she decided to allow him disvirgin her but before then she made him promise just 1 thing; Never to cheat on her. Ofcos,Femi was konjified&couldn’t think straight,so he promised..Only few weeks after dating,Femi started setting other twitter P,Abiba confronted him really shedding tears but he denied,she told him to swear which he did & told the girl to do whatever she likes to him if he cheats.
    After 3months and some days, Abiba caught Femi having sex with another girl in his apartment,she was heartbroken so the left the scene. Before we knew what was happening,she deleted Femi off BBM,closed her twitter account (@Abyxxba92) & her number has never been reachable since then. Weeks after the incident,Femi had a serious accident with his EOD,his apartment got burnt,so he was evicted and Femi has been living a nightmare,praying for a miracle. Dunno if its just a coincidence or Abiba is a witch but Femi’s life is meaningless at the moment if U know the where about of @Abyxxba92 please holla.
    Guys please set P with caution. Karma is real,Girls have ELEDA (Creator) like yoruba people will say,be warned. Please RT the story to everyone on your TL to read,we all need to learn,don’t let another person on your TL be a victim.

    Football legend Diego Maradona, 51, and his girlfriend Veronica Ojeda expecting first child together

    Football legend Diego Maradona is set to become a father again.

    The Argentine star's girlfriend Veronica Ojeda,33, confirmed that the pregnancy reports are true to an Argentine website.
    The 34-year-old beauty told that she is four months pregnant with their first child. 
    Baby news: Diego Maradonna and girlfriend Veronica Ojeda are expecting their first child together
    The couple are thought to have been trying for another baby since Veronica miscarried in January 2010.
    Maradona, 51, whose infamous Hand of God goal helped put England out of the 1986 World Cup, had two daughters with ex-wife Claudia Villafane.
    The youngest, Giannina, is married to Man City star Sergio Aguero and made Maradona a granddad in February 2009 by giving birth to son Benjamin in Madrid.
    Lovely news: Veronica is four months pregnant meaning Maradona will become a father again at the age of 52
    The soccer star has never officially recognised Diego Maradona Jr, born to former lover Cristiana Sinagra when he played for Naples, as his son.
    An Italian court sided with the model, ruling the child was his and ordered him to pay maintenance. 
    His fourth child, a girl, was born in 1996, offspring of a relationship with an Argentine woman but little is known about her.  
    They're my girls: Diego has three daughters but only acknowledges two of them seen here with Giannina (R) and Dalma (L)
    They're my girls: Diego has three daughters but only acknowledges two of them seen here with Giannina (R) and Dalma (L)

    Manager Dies While Having Sex With Female Staff


    Anyone who can control sex has all it takes to lead a stress-free life. The Human Resources Manager of 7-Up Bottling Company at its Benin City plant, Mr. Sola Mosiko, has collapsed and died in a hotel room in Benin City, Edo State.
    Investigation reveals that Mosiko, 53, had gone to the hotel with a lady called Amen, a security guard in 7-Up company, to have fun when the tragedy occurred.
    The lady was arrested by the police after she fled from the hotel room immediately her boss cum lover slumped and was grasping for breath.
    An indigene of Ayetoro-Gbede in Kogi State, Northcentral Nigeria, Mosiko called at the hotel with Amen after the day’s work to relax and enjoy themselves.
    However, a few hours after they checked into the hotel, Amen rushed out and was shouting for help. But all efforts to resuscitate Mosiki proved abortive. The lady was later arrested and handed over to the police at Ekiadolor Police Station, Benin City.
    She was detained for three days after which she was released.
    According to sources, Mosiko’s wife and children left Lagos for Benin City to spend their vacation with him and on the night of the incident, his wife made several calls to his phone without any response. But the following morning, the police used her husband’s phone to call and invite her to the hospital where Mosiko was taken to.
    A source said: “When Mrs. Mosiko’s phone rang in the morning, she felt something was amiss since she could not sleep throughout the night while awaiting the arrival of her husband at home. She became more worried when the caller, a policeman invited her to a hospital.
    “Initially, she thought it was an accident. But she was shocked when she searched her dead husband’s body and saw no wound. She was later informed that her husband died in a hotel.”

    Source : AFP

    Kanye West Sex Tape With Kim Kardashian Look-A-Like Being Shopped

    She shot to fame thanks to the now infamous sex tape she made with ex-boyfriend Ray J in 2007.
    And it could be that Kim Kardashian has more in common with her current beau Kanye West than she initially thought, as it has been claimed the rapper has starred in his very own intimate video. 

    Being shopped: Kanye West has reportedly starred in his own sex tape with a Kim Kardashian lookalike, allegedly pictured here in a grab from the video
    The nearly 20-minute-long recording is believed to have been shot with an unidentified female who is a 'dead ringer' for Kim herself, reports. 
    Sex tape: Kanye West allegedly filmed an intimate video with an unidentified woman shortly before he started dating Kim Kardashian
    Sex tape: Kanye West allegedly filmed an intimate video with an unidentified woman shortly before he started dating Kim Kardashian
    Filmed in what appears to be a hotel room, the married woman reportedly confirms at the start of the tape that she's over the age of 18 and fully consenting.
    She adds: 'My husband and I don't have sex anymore... that's why I'm here!'
    According to the US gossip site, the mystery woman is a Kim lookalike with a curvaceous figure and long dark hair.
    Radar maintains to have seen the steamy tape in full and claim they can verify 'without a doubt' that it is the 35-year-old rapper in the video.
    Throughout the romp, the pair allegedly don't kiss or interact in any way apart from trying out various positions.
    The man who appears to be Kanye is said to be aware he is being filmed because he not only set up the camera, but also looks directly into the device at the end of the video. 
    According to an industry insider, the tape was shot shortly before Kanye officially got together with Kim in March, and he is said to be 'terrified' about the video being leaked. 
    A source claimed to Radar: 'The sex tape is being shopped right now and there's a lot of interest, but Kanye is freaking out!
      'He doesn't want this tape out and will do anything to make sure it stays private. If this were to hit the market it would be worth a fortune… there would definitely be a lot of people wanting to see this!
      'Kanye was practically in tears when he heard the tape was being shopped.'
      Lookalike: The mystery woman involved in the alleged tape is reportedly a 'dead ringer' for Kanye's current girlfriend Kim Kardashian
      Lookalike: The mystery woman involved in the alleged tape is reportedly a 'dead ringer' for Kanye's current girlfriend Kim Kardashian
      Ironically, Kanye raps about Kim's 2007 sex tape in his new song Clique. 
      He states: 'Eat breakfast at Gucci/My girl a superstar all from a home movie.'
      MailOnline is awaiting comment from Kanye's representative. 
      Desperate: The 35-year-old rapper is said to be willing to 'do anything' to ensure the video doesn't find its way on to the market
      Desperate: The 35-year-old rapper is said to be willing to 'do anything' to ensure the video doesn't find its way on to the market
      Kris Jenner dats kims mum has told Kanye West to STOP talking about Kim Kardashian’s sex tape,

      Lady Gaga Head Tattoo


                                       pls what is ladygaga upto again tatoo n her head...

      DONATELLA VS. MAMA ELSA Who'd You Rather?

      Here's 57-year-old Italian blonde bombshell fashion designer Donatella Versace in Milan on Wednesday (left) -- and "Real Housewives of Miami" stunning breakout star Mama Elsa Patton in Florida earlier this month (right).
                                                       so who"d you rather prefer

      Lady Gaga Talks Weight Gain: I Don't Feel Bad About It!

      Lady Gaga is the first to admit she's put on a little weight recently -- but she's not apologizing for it!

      "I'm dieting right now, because I gained, like, 25 pounds," the singer revealed in a radio interview back in August ... an interview just making headlines now after Gaga showed off her new figure on tour in Amsterdam this month.

      "And you know I really don't feel bad about it, not even for a second," she told host Elvis Duran. "I have to be on such a strict diet constantly. It's hard because it's a quite vigorous show, so I tend to bulk up, get muscular, and I really don't like that. So I'm trying to find a new balance."

      Part of the reason for her weight gain: Dad's delicious Italian food.

      "My father opened a restaurant, it's so amazing," she says. "It's so freaking delicious, but I'm telling you I gain five pounds every time I go in there. So my dad wants me to eat at the restaurant and I'm like 'I've got to go where I can drink green juice!'"

      Her other weakness: Pizza.

      "I love eating pasta and pizza. I'm a New York Italian girl!"

      Can't blame here for that ... who doesn't like a good slice of every now and then?

      Now that she's back on the road again, the singer will likely shrink back down in no time -- but from the sound of it, she's not in any rush!

      Is DKB Leaving Pluzz Fm To Prava Radio?


      Ghana’s rep to Big Brother Stargame as in the news again. The comedian of laugh a minute show and the host of It runs through the family was spotted at the office of the General Manager of Prava FM last Wednesday.
      DKB who was on Pluzz FM with Dr. Pounds on the drive show with his comedy was all of a sudden lost on air. We didn’t hear him anymore after his two months stay there. Could it be that DKB is moving from Pluzz FM to Prava FM? OMG!Ghana will investigate to know the truth about this story.
      DKB is known for his comedy from laugh a minute and to Pluzz radio on their drive time show and we can only imagine how the madness with comedy that would be on air like he used to do at Pluzz FM...
      Source : OMGGHANA.COM

      PARIS HILTON APOLOGIZES 'Gays are Strong, Inspiring'

      Paris Hilton
       has issued an apology for the comments she made about gay men ... saying, "Gay people are the strongest and most inspiring people I know." 

      Of course, Hilton's apology is in response to a secretly recorded piece of audio released earlier this week which caught the heiress saying such gems like, "Gay guys are the horniest people in the world. Most of them probably have AIDS." 

      Paris had already released a statement trying to explain herself ... but now, she's issued a full-on apology -- posted on GLAAD's website, no less -- saying, "I am so sorry and so upset that I caused pain to my gay friends, fans and their families with the comments heard this morning."

      "I was having this private conversation with a friend of mine who is gay and our conversation was in no way towards the entire gay community. It is the last thing that I would ever want to do and I cannot put into words how much I wish I could take back every word." 

      She continued, "Gay people are the strongest and most inspiring people I know ... Again, I am so sorry from the bottom of my heart and I feel absolutely horrible. I hope that everyone can accept my apology and know that it is not who I am or how I feel in any way."

      Sarkodie, Don jazzy, Becca And More Stars To Battle It Out At The Premiere Of ‘Single And Married’


      SINGLE AND MARRIED GHANA MOVIEMovie ‘Single And Married” which is slated to be premiered on Saturday is billed to have lots of celebrities being at the Bird Cinema. You go kill me hit maker Sarkodie, Don Jazzy of Mohit Records, sensational Becca, Nadia Buari, Chris Attoah, Tiffany, Efya and many celebrities will be at the movie premiere. What fans will be looking out from these stars are the designers of the clothes they are wearing, their shoes, cologne/perfumesnecklaces and a whole lot more. Who is going to rock the day? Who  is going to rock the day? Is it going to be Sarkodie, Efya, Tiffany, Becca, Don Jazzy, Nadia? OMG!Ghana will be there to bring you the footage.
      The movie Single and Married was written and directed by Pascal Amanfo and produced by Yvonne Nelson.  The movie which stars Nadia Buari, Yvonne Nelson, Chris Attoh, Kofi Adjorlolo, Efya, Tiffany, Eddie Watson and many more actors and actresses is the second movie produced by Yvonne Nelson but first to be premiered. Yvonne nelson explaining why she casted music artistes Efya and Tiffany  in her latest movie said people are tired of seeing same faces in our movies so she decided to change the whole idea to bring in musicians and radio presenters.
      The premiere is a two-show premiere after which will be premiered in Nigeria next two weeks
      Yvonne Nelson concluded by thanking her fans especially her over 300000 fans on Facebook and her twitter followers....

      AMY WINEHOUSE Singer Gets Second Billing ... On Her GRAVESTONE

      Amy Winehouse's gravestone has been unveiled in London ... and even though she was a worldwide superstar, she didn't get top billing on her final marquee. 

      Amy is buried alongside her grandmother Cynthia Levy, who passed away 5 years before the 27-year-old singer ... and the two share a gravestone, with Cynthia's name on top.  

      The stone reads, "In loving memory of Cynthia Levy ... and her beloved granddaughter Amy Jade Winehouse." 

      The inscription continues, "Forever in the hearts of their devoted family." 

      Winehouse died on July 23, 2011 after a hardcore alcohol binge.  


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      Kanye West Set to Jet South Africa Shores


      It’s confirmed: Multiple-award winning rapper Kanye West is coming to South Africa to perform for one night only.

      The award winning rapper is scheduled to perform at an undisclosed venue in Johannesburg on 2 February 2013.
      Limited tickets priced from R650 to R1,000 for limited golden circle tickets, are expected to go on sale at Computicket from 28 September 2012.

      Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards Launch


      The launch of the Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards held yesterday in Lagos.