True Confession: My house girl is tempting me, what should I do?

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I will simply go straight to the point, as I would not want to give very explicit details about myself. This is for some obvious reasons. My wife is very sharp, I mean, she is such an intelligent woman and can easily trace this true confession to me. For the fact that I love her so much, I cannot let a thing fall in-between us. That is why I have kept this as top-secret till today; but I will have to let this out of the bag.

I’m not oblivious of the fact that most issues of this nature are blamed on the men whom most of us see as womanizers; but mine is a different thing entirely. I’m not a womanizer. I have tried everything possible to make sure that this girl-my house girl leaves my house, but my wife will always insist she stays.

I’m a pastor, but I also work as a civil servant. I would have loved to write further about where I live, but for the same reason why I can’t mention my name, I can’t tell you where I’m writing from.

This young lady was brought to my house by my wife sometimes in 2010, and had just completed her secondary education last year. She is supposed to pick up a form for her higher education because she is related to my wife; distant relation, sort of.

Frankly, she has been very good, and has been taking care of my only daughter since my wife put to bed late last year. Her presence is a big relief to me and wife because we are both very busy people. My wife works with a bank, and sometimes come home around 8-9pm.

Lately, this young girl has summoned courage to seduce me; to be sincere, she is tempting me.

I often return to the house ahead of my wife. Sometimes, because of hold-up and other issues, I will get in around 5-6pm. She started by running to embrace me with her transparent-short gown to welcome me each time I knock, on arrival. I was shocked the very day she did that. I felt so embarrassed. “Even if I had traveled to space…hun! This one is just too much… hun!” I soliloquized in my bedroom after she had dropped my office bag and ran out to get my food. This continued for 3 weeks. Sometimes, her boobs will just slip out of her ‘top’ and she will simply apologize. My wife has never met her on that gown as she wears another cloth when it’s almost time for my wife to return. I have developed double minds about her. I have had different evil thoughts since this whole thing started. The one that happened last was the way she sat facing me, with her legs wide opened. I left the food that I was eating and walked to the bathroom to do nothing in particular. I had thought she would adjust as soon as I returned, but she didn’t budge. I think I fell into her trap finally that day. I almost had it with her when I grabbed her, and she jumped at me. We started that regrettable romance before God intervened with the sharp cry of my baby. That was what saved the day.

The next day, I had told my wife that we should send her away, but she vehemently refused to accept my suggestion. She had asked me to give some reasons why we should send her away, and I had told her that she was getting so stubborn and lazy; hence, she is as good as no House-help.

My wife who claimed she had never experienced that had accused me of formulating things against the lady. She told me that I wanted her out of the house because I had seen that she will soon secure admission into the higher institution, and I will soon begin to pay for her school fees. I couldn’t tell her the truth, because something tells me it will be disastrous. I just felt I could handle the matter in the most professional way. But right now, things have gone out of hands since the past 2 weeks. I have done virtually everything that can be considered dirty with her except that I have not done it with her yet. What’s keeping me from doing it is my conscience and for the fact that I can’t do that in my matrimonial home.

That sin will be so grievous, I know.  She had asked me repeatedly last week if she can meet me in any of the hotels around town this weekend since my wife will be around then. She has just Saturday and Sunday to take care of her hair and visit friends, and she wants to use that opportunity to have me all to herself. Now, I’m contemplating on this issue. All I need is your advice; Saturday is just 5 days from today, and I can’t make up my mind on what to do. I love my wife, but I think I’m becoming so foolish in the name of being faithful. Please, tell me; should I do it or not? It has gotten to the level where I cannot tell my wife the truth because she won’t even believe, since I had told her a different story before. She will see it as blackmail. Your reaction will either encourage me or discourage me, even though my mind beats faster, and something tells me to do it. Should I?

Top 10 highest earning Nigerian actresses

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Below is a list of the Richest Nollywood actresses, this involves earnings from endorsements, and other businesses they have been involved in during the past years:

10) Chioma Chukwuka – 46 Million Naira
The absolutely scandal-free actress in Nollywood has featured in about 70 movies and has raked in millions for herself and family. She earned N8 million from movies in 2007.

In 2008, she also earned a whopping N9 million. She owns two houses and various properties in Lagos and her home state.

9) Monalisa Chinda – 50 Million Naira
Between 2004 and 2008, Monalisa Chinda earned about N25 million.
The actress and producer is about to release her movie which is already in its final stages. She also owns landed properties in choice locations in both Rivers State and Lagos.

8) Uche Jombo – 49.5 Million Naira
In 2008, she pocketed N10 million for her slick performances in several movies.

The Glo ambassador and model, who earned more than N11 million in 2009, seems unstoppable at the moment. The year 2011/2012 could see her top this list, since some of her movies are not yet released and the ones being shown in cinemas are still enjoying sold-out status across the continent.

7) Patience Ozokwor – 51 Million Naira
The Enugu star is nicknamed ‘Mama G’ in Nollywood. She is the oldest on the list and is notable for her tough roles in movies. ‘Mama G’, who is also a musician, has been consistent in the industry and her roles have been raw energy. She is very diverse in her investments but also has several landed properties. She also started business very early.

6) Omotola Jalade Ekeinde – 53 Million Naira
In 2007, she grossed N9 million. Omotola takes it easy with her life and also has great passion for cars.

She drives more expensive cars than any actress in Nollywood and her garage is estimated to be worth N20 million. The mother, model and musician has recently stepped up her game in the music industry.

Her first album ‘Gba’ was her first introduction to the music industry but her sophomore album ‘Me, Myself & Eyes’ has defined her as truly talented. The production and promotion of her album cost her a whopping N13 million.

5) Mercy Johnson – 55 Million Naira
By 2008, Mercy Johnson had appeared in fifteen movies and earned N11.4 million from movies alone. The following year, she earned N13 million and she featured in the Emen Isong hit movie ‘Guilty Pleasures’. She is also an investor in properties and she is about to complete two houses at the moment. She also owns about six landed properties in Lagos.

4) Rita Dominic – 58 Million Naira
In 2004, she won the City Peoples Award as the Most Outstanding Actress. The face of Nokia and the Glo ambassador is also a business woman.

Rita has done well both as an actress and a model. Her assets include landed properties and two homes estimated to be worth over N40 million.

Between 2008 and 2009, she earned N16million (most of it part of the money coming from Nokia and Glo.) She is about to launch a book and produce her own films.

3) Ini Edo – 60 Million Naira
She has five buildings to her credit and another one to be completed by the end of the year. Most of the buildings are being rented to tenants. By 2007, she had earned N15.7 million from movies and her businesses.

She has just produced her latest flick ‘Memories Of The Heart’ which will be premiered in the United States. She is a Glo ambassador and is also part of the project to move Nollywood to another level. She is fully involved with Nollywood USA.

2) Genevieve Nnaji – 64 Million Naira
By 2009, she raised the bar and she was paid $25,000 in the blockbuster international hit movie ‘IJE’ produced by Chineze Anyaene. A model and also a singer, she became the Face of Lux in 2004 and was subsequently involved with Pronto beverage and Omo detergent. Between 2004 and 2006, she earned a whopping N31.3 million.

N14.7 million came from her two-year deal with Lux ($100,000). With no great interest in real estate, she decided to dive into the fashion industry. She launched her clothing line St. Genevieve in 2008 which is presently being managed by fashion icon Zizi Cardow and is reportedly worth N20 million.

There is no doubt that she would have been topping this list with a great margin if she eventually got the Glo deal. She became the first to be contacted by Globacom, but she demanded N50 million while globacom wanted to sign her on for N30 million. She’s reported to have tried later to salvage the deal, but she had already lost it. She is also the brand ambassador of Range Rover’s Evogue new brand of cars.

1) Kate Henshaw-Nuttall – 67 Million Naira
By 2006, she had earned N10 million and the following year, she reached N12 million. The warm and beautiful star is also a model, a former Glo Ambassador, and face of Onga (brand from Promasidor) and has since earned a whopping N20 million between 2008 and 2010...

VIDEO: 2face, Wizkid, D’Banj, Tiwa Savage & MI – ‘Let’s Get This Party Started’

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Just what is it goner look like . When you have 2face Idibia, Tiwa Savage, MI Abaga, D’Banj and Wizkid on a track, you can be assured it is going to be a crazy jam. And that is exactly what this Jay Sleek-produced ‘Let’s get this party started’ is.

Added to all that brilliance, Clarence Peters directs one of the most anticipated videos.watchout

CocoIce Storms The Dancefloor with Rock Me on Her Birthday …Hit Location for The shooting of “It’s Me” Video.

Still basking in the euphoria of the wide acceptance and huge success her debut song and video “If U Don’t Know”, CocoIce is set to build on these trend by releasing 2 massive singles “It’s Me – Coded mix” and “Bad Guy” to finally establish herself and consolidate her position as a talented rap diva to contest with.

Poised to be the next biggest club banger of the year is the highly anticipated second official single “Rocke Me (Bad Guy)” from the mercurial rap diva, CocoIce.

CocoIce who some few months ago dropped her first music video for the hit song “If U Don’t Know – PonPonPon remix” which got rave review amongst the media and music lover is back with this fast tempo dancehall song.

According to her, “I did this song to show another side of me and to let people know that I’m not limited to hardcore hiphop. “Rock Me (Bad Guy)” is for the streets and the clubs. It’s a fast tempo song which I strongly believe will get my fans and lovers of good music grooving on the dance floor”, she says.

MAGiKAL Entertainment, her record label also stated that they will be dropping the two massive singles “It’s Me – Coded remix” produced by H-Code and “Rock Me (Bad Guy)” produced by Young-D in few days time, precisely on the 30^th of September, 2012 which coincidentally happens to be her birthday.

Though “It’s Me” had been leaked to the internet, it will be officially released alongside “Bad Guy”.

Also, arrangement is in top gear for the video production of “It’s Me” which will be shot by the fast rising and most-sought-after video director, Aina Matthew Abiodun of Reaction Production who shot CocoIce’s “If U Don’t Know” music video.

There’s a website (www.cocoicenaija.com) and online platforms via Facebook and Twitter where her fans can hook up with her and interact with her. The website serves as a porter to keep her fans abreast of latest happening as regards studio sessions, songs, videos, downloads, themes, wallpapers, pictures, merchandise, ringtones and online promotions.

According to MAGiKAL Entertainment CEO, Biodun Caston-Dada, “we are building CocoIce into a global brand and not just for the Nigerian market alone through series of online promotions where fans can win various prizes such as BlackBerry phones, CocoIce Tank Tops/T.Shirts, Recharge Cards, Champagne, Movie Tickets, Hair Extensions/Weave-on”, he stated.

CocoIce has shared the stage with top acts like Mode 9, Sage, Late Dagrin, Minjin, T. Code, etc.

CocoIce is available for interview.  Please contact Sunday Obembe on 08084809400 or 08062300002 to set up a time that is convenient.

:: Management – MAGiC Entertainment

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16, Ilupeju Road, by Junction B/Stop,

Ilupeju, Lagos.

Tel: 08062300002, 08057002424, 08080203344

Honest Cab Driver who returned missing N18 million, rewarded with $15,860

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While some Nigerians commended his honesty, others called him a fool, considering the fact that the taxi driver wasn't too financially buoyant himself.

Coupled with the fact that, until recently he hasn't been rewarded for his good deed.

According to NigerianEye earlier reported that Mr Usuah was awarded by the National Orientation Agency (NOA) and given a token amount of N30,000. An amount which many criticized as being to small.

Luck however smiled on Mr Imeh Usuah  on Tuesday, as he emerged the winner of the Securities and Exchange Commission’s (SEC) maiden Integrity Award. Usuah was awarded a plaque and N2.5 million ($15,860) for his honesty.

Usuah, accompanied by his wife Mercy was celebrated by the capital market community for returning N18 million forgotten in his taxi cab in 2007 by a customer.

Usuah a former workshop foreman with Julius Berger Plc had earlier been acknowledged and commended by four different groups in the country.

Ms Arunma Oteh, the Director- General of SEC said that the award was the commission’s contributions toward the promotion, recognition and reward for integrity.

“Usuah’s exemplary act of honesty and integrity had sprinkled a burst of refreshing dew upon the national consciousness,” Oteh said.

She said that “the integrity award is a careful response to a critical need of the Nigerian society, as it is through it that trust is built and sustained.”

In his response, Usuah, a native of Ubokudom in Akwa Ibom, commended the commission for the gesture and devoted the award to the “unsung honest and committed Nigerians across the country.

Rich businessman offers $65m to any man that can woo his lesbian daughter

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A businessman from Hong Kong has offered a $65m dowry to any man who can win the heart of his lesbian daughter.

Are you an eligible bachelor ready to marry? Can you play a lovey-dovey and win the heart of a 33 year old beautiful woman, who already has a same-sex loving attraction to another woman?

If you fit these descriptions, catch the next plane for Paris or Hong kong in search of Gigi Chao, daughter of a Hong Kong billionaire.

The Hong Kong businessman has offered a $65 million “marriage bounty” to any man who can win the heart of his lesbian daughter, a report said Wednesday.
Cecil Chao announced the financial reward of HK$500 million after his daughter, Gigi, married her same-sex partner of seven years in France earlier this year. “I don’t mind whether he is rich or poor. The important thing is that he is generous and kind hearted,” 76-year-old Chao was quoted as saying.

“Gigi is a very good woman with both talents and looks. She is devoted to her parents, is generous and does volunteer work,” he added.

He also rejected “false reports” that Gigi, 33, had married abroad, saying she was still single.

Chao, who owns publicly-listed property developer Cheuk Nang, could not be reached for comment. Same-sex marriages are not recognised in Hong Kong, a socially conservative Chinese city where homosexuality was decriminalised in 1991.

Chao is well known in Hong Kong’s social circles and regularly appears at public events with his latest young girlfriend.

He reportedly once claimed to have had intimate relations with 10,000 women..

PHOTO OF THE DAY: Crocodile On Flooded Streets, Swimming Trucks, Floating Houses

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Crocodile On a Flooded Street in Benue state

A busy road in Ibaji Local Government Area of Kogi State, now turned into a semi-ocean due to the devastating effects of flooding in the state, Pictured above is a truck almost sinking on the flooded road.

Aerial view images of flooding around River Niger in Lokoja

Residents have also switched to the use of canoes as alternative means of transportation.

Omotola J. Ekeinde reacts to husband's alleged sack from Air Nigeria

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Beautiful omotola two days ago reacted to reports that went viral last week suggesting her pilot husband, Captain Matthew Ekeinde, was sacked from the Jimoh Ibrahim owned Air Nigeria, which shut down operation for a year and let go of more than 95% of its staff.

After she reacted to the reports, some people suggested that the actress was dishonest for debunking the rumour because the only pilots left at Air Nigeria are the Director of Flights Operation and Chief Pilot. But here's the thing; Captain Ekeinde was not particularly sacked by Air Nigeria, but he was among the 800+ people affected by the airline's decision to shut down operation for over a year....

WARNING: I do not have a brother named Martins Jumbo – Uche Jombo

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UCHE JUMBO It seems like someone is trying to capitalize on the hard work of one of our Nollywood darlings Uche Jombo. According to Nollywoodgossip don’t really know what made the Abia born actress put out a disclaimer on someone named Martins Jumbo. We’re still trying to unravel the mystery behind the message.

Here is the message put out by Uche.

“I DO not have a brother with this number +2347066386301 or pin27b484f4 and I DO NOT have a brother with the name martins jumbo looking for a wife or whatever else. My name is JOMBO not JUMBO. DO NOT deal with [this] person.”

You’ve heard her. Please share this news everywhere on the internet to save innocent people from being scammed.....

MTN Fined in Rwanda for Poor Services

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Telecommunications giant, MTN, are not having it all rosy presently in Rwandaas the Rwanda Utilities Regulatory Agency (RURA) has levied a fine of 3 million Rwandan Franc (about $4,834) per day on MTN Rwanda for poor service, with effect since from September 14.

Arguably the largest provider of telecoms services on the continent, MTN has the largest subscriber base in Rwanda and RURA said complaints about drop calls and network failure has persisted for too long.

According to the Director General of RURA, Regis Gatarayiha, during a press briefing, “I know they are trying to fix it, but it has persisted since March this year and this is appropriate according to the policy… Within its mandate and powers conferred to it by the Law N0 44/2001 governing communications, RURA decided to issue a confirmation enforcement notice and to impose a penalty to MTN Rwanda over persistently poor quality services.”

While it is known that similar action has been taken in Nigeria by the NCC against virtually all the telecoms services providers in the country, not only do Nigerians not feel the impact of the fines (if they had indeed been paid), the problem of poor service delivery still persist in the country....

Nollywood Actress Rukky Rains Curses Over Lesbianism Tag

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Nollywood reports say one of Nigeria’s popular actresses Rukky Sanda has rained curses on a Nigerian entertainment journalist over rumours that she is a lesbian.

Nigeriafilms.com in an earlier report interpreted the actress’ comments in a different interview with New Journal to mean she had confirmed she and Tonto Dikeh were lesbians.

In that interview, Rukky reportedly said, “Tonto Dike is my baby. She’s one of my best friends. She’s fun, naughty and amazing. She’s my baby.”

The website’s lesbian article however questioned what she meant by those comments and further cast certain insinuations.

Last week, the website came back with reports that the actress was not happy with the interpretations given to her comments.

A source close to Rukky told Nigeriafilms.com that Rukky was angry about the way the interview was interpreted.

She hence vowed never to grant any interview to any media outfit again. For her, the media always enjoyed turning things around in order to sell their stories.

The source said that Rukky went as far as cursing the writer of the story and said some unprintable things about the journalist and the media.

Rukky and Tonto are very close friends. Their closeness led to rumours that both actresses could be partners. Tonto is yet to react to the rumuors.....

Wizkid, long time manager allegedly part ways

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Osagie

The reports making the rounds, have it that EME’s Wizkid and long time manager, Osagie Osarenkhoe, no longer have business together again. The story has it that there is no bad blood, as the contract both parties signed expired and the artiste chose not to renew it.

A little proof of this new development, is on Osagie’s Twitter page. @thismetalchic no longer has Wizkid’s name listed among the clients she represents.

According to Olorisupergal’s Blog, “Ayo Balogun popularly known as Wizkid and his manager Osagie Osarenkhue of M.et.al have parted ways and ended their five year management relationship. According to sources, Osagie’s deal with Wizkid ended 3 months ago and both parties have tried as much as possible to keep it away from the public.

“However, the CEo of M.et.al wil continue to work with Skales, Niyola and Shaydee.

“Osagie also manages Solidstar, Dammy Krane, Dee Money [Ghana].